Opening Your Relationship with Care, Confidence, and Connection
abundant, accountable love
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Tailored resources, new skills, and a structured space to practice them for individuals, couples, & polycules exploring nonmonogamy, polyamory, kink, and neurocomplex love.
All through communication skills, relationship rituals, and liberated accountability.
This isn’t therapy. But they pair together perfectly.
It’s empathetic, customized skills-based support for intentional folk who are expanding their relationships outside of monogamy, outside of vanilla.
Whether you’re:
Taking your first steps into nonmonogamy or polyamory,
Navigating the intersections of kink and consent, or
Honoring your neurodivergent wiring in love and intimacy
I provide tools, structure, and practices that help you and your partners feel seen, understood, and prepared.
And we’re not just going to “talk about talking.”
We’ll get into the nitty gritty of sexual health agreements, boundaries/expectations, and everything else that you need to navigate your organic connections.
From nonmonogamy newbies to practiced polyamory folks, no matter where you are in your journey, I’m here to help you achieve your relational goals!
Let’s amplify the communication & relational skills you have and explore research-backed ideas for new ones that play to your strengths and expand your desires.
That’s why I Offer:
✦ Individual Coaching
One-on-one guidance for clarifying what you want, what you need, and how to voice it. Together, we’ll create rituals, strategies, and practices that fit your unique nervous system and values.
✦ Couples & ‘Cules (Partners) Support
Facilitated conversations and shared exercises to build trust, co-regulate, and establish structures for communication and accountability. Perfect for couples newly opening up or longtime partners adjusting to change.
✦ Skills You’ll Learn
Communication Skills: Saying the hard things without collapsing or exploding.
Relationship Rituals: Building grounding practices for safety and connection.
Liberated Accountability: Owning your part in growth, with compassion not punishment.
Neurodiverse-Informed Practices: Strategies that support ADHD/autistic wiring, executive function, and sensory needs.
Kink-Aware Tools: Applying consent frameworks from kink into everyday relationship agreements. Bringing relational strengths to our kink.
Hi, I’m Nick/Nicole (they/she - love a mix),
I know we are way more than a list of experiences, but I hope these help explain why I’m passionate about helping individuals, couples, & ‘cules find ease & joy in their connections.
12+ years lived experience in nonmonogamy and kink communities.
Published author (Nonmonogamy & Abolitionist Theory book coming Spring 2026!)
Educator and facilitator of in-person and online courses in communication and relational skills of 10+ years.
Queer, neurodivergent, and kinky myself — I don’t just understand theory, I live it.
My approach is intentionally invitational, practical, and affirming. I’ll meet you where you’re at, whether that’s untangling jealousy, finding boundaries, or learning how to create sustainable joy.
Testimonies From Your Community
Liberated Relationships Course Participant
“This work is not about the “right” way to do nonmonogamy, it’s about fundamentally rethinking relationships on every level; relationship to ourselves, to our partners, to the current world, and to the liberated abolitionist future world we are building together.
Shifting my relationship with myself has given me so much joy and hope. [Working with Nicole] has opened my mind to new possibilities and given me new tools to bring them into being.
Liberated Relationships Course Participant